Bonfire Night, with its crackling fires, dazzling fireworks, and bustling crowds, can be an exhilarating experience. However, for children with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND), the loud noises, bright flashes, and unpredictable environment can be overwhelming rather than exciting. For parents and carers, navigating Guy Fawkes Night with a SEND child requires careful planning, patience, and sometimes creative alternatives.
Many SEND children, particularly those with autism, ADHD, or sensory processing difficulties, may struggle with the sensory overload of Bonfire Night. Sudden bangs, strong smells of smoke, and crowded spaces can trigger anxiety or meltdowns. Additionally, for individuals with epilepsy, the rapid flashes or strobe-like effects of fireworks can pose a risk of triggering seizures, a condition known as photosensitive epilepsy. If this is a concern, consider watching fireworks from a distance, avoiding displays with intense flashing lights, or consulting the Epilepsy Society’s guidance for tailored advice.
Signs of distress to watch for include covering ears or eyes, withdrawing from the situation, increased stimming such as rocking or humming, or verbal protests. Recognising these cues early can help you intervene before the situation becomes overwhelming.
Preparation can make a significant difference in helping your child feel more comfortable. Using social stories or visual aids can help explain what to expect, such as bright lights in the sky and loud noises, followed by returning home. Showing videos of fireworks beforehand with the sound turned down and gradually increasing the volume, if tolerated, can also help familiarise your child with the experience.
Packing sensory tools, such as noise-cancelling headphones, sunglasses, or a comfort object like a favourite toy or weighted blanket, can provide reassurance. Choosing the right event is equally important. Look for quieter displays, such as "low-noise" fireworks, or attend smaller local events rather than crowded public events. Arriving early to secure a calm spot near an exit ensures you can leave quickly if needed.
The National Autistic Society shares a helpful SENSES approach for Bonfire Night, with simple steps to reduce sensory overload and make plans feel predictable.
Always have an exit plan ready, as sometimes the best solution is a quiet night in with hot chocolate and a favourite film.
After the excitement, some children may need time to decompress. A warm bath, deep pressure from a weighted blanket, or quiet time can help them regulate their emotions. Talking about the experience afterwards can also be beneficial. Ask your child what they liked and what was too much, as this can help you plan for future events.
Awareness of the needs of SEND children is growing, and some UK venues now offer early viewings for families before crowds arrive or quiet zones with reduced noise. If your local area lacks these options, consider speaking to event organisers, as small changes can make a big difference.
Disclaimer: The information in this article is provided for general interest and should not be considered medical, therapeutic or educational advice. Families are encouraged to seek support from qualified professionals regarding individual needs or concerns.